We do have human analogs, of course (What else would you expect me to say?). Sometimes two people in a relationship simply separate, occupy more space because of the division between them, and yet, remain in close proximity. Sometimes two people move apart as the rocks on either side of a fault, at times abruptly and earthquake-like and at other times by a slow creep of separation.
Look around. Live in a region of jointed relationships? Are people once part of a single unit now living in proximity but somehow behaviorally or intellectually separately? Are the separations places where erosion of the relationships is most likely? Live in a region of active faults? If the latter is your region, are the movements indicative of slow creep or large seismic jumps? Are the inexorable movements along the faults caused by those involved “finding fault” with the “rocks” on the other side?