Seems that dissatisfied people often think they need to reinvent themselves. “If I could only start over,” they think. Dismantling the past, however, is impossible. Anyone who seeks a renewal should consider an alternative approach to renewing a life: Pushing the “Refresh” button. The button initiates an update, not an annihilation of the past.
Why spend the time disassembling everything and casting it aside? A little updating might be all that is needed to change a life. The myth of a makeover is that it produces a new being. In fact, “something that was there” is being altered in a makeover. Remodeling a house doesn’t require destroying the whole structure.
Hit the Refresh button when you are a bit unhappy. Look at what is being refreshed, and keep that which needs no makeover or remodeling. Build on the existing structure. You’ll amaze yourself and friends. “Carly, what a magnificent change. I hardly recognize the place. It’s amazing how a few thoughtful changes here and there can make such a difference.”
Will you achieve perfection? No. But you should realize that there’s never a time when you cannot push the Refresh button or remodel the existing structure.
Why spend the time disassembling everything and casting it aside? A little updating might be all that is needed to change a life. The myth of a makeover is that it produces a new being. In fact, “something that was there” is being altered in a makeover. Remodeling a house doesn’t require destroying the whole structure.
Hit the Refresh button when you are a bit unhappy. Look at what is being refreshed, and keep that which needs no makeover or remodeling. Build on the existing structure. You’ll amaze yourself and friends. “Carly, what a magnificent change. I hardly recognize the place. It’s amazing how a few thoughtful changes here and there can make such a difference.”
Will you achieve perfection? No. But you should realize that there’s never a time when you cannot push the Refresh button or remodel the existing structure.
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