Why the tendency toward elaboration? Is IKEA the only place where simplicity reigns unchallenged? In fact, simplicity is one side of a pendulum’s swing. Elaboration is on the other side. There are still companies that sell chairs with claw feet and fleur-de-lis credenzas. That swing from simple to complex is a constant in our lives, also. There is a duality in us from which we derive solutions to daily problems by reducing or complicating.
“But why don’t you want to?” That’s you talking to someone. It doesn’t matter what the topic is. You want an explanation, and “why” posed to someone else asks for a simple explanation. In another circumstance, someone asks you, “But why…?” You respond, “It’s complicated.”
Unless we train ourselves or are trained by others to listen in depth to another, we usually seek a simple explanation to the motives, actions, and ideas of others. Thus, the straightforward song “Get over It” by the Eagles tells whiners and complainers to simply stop whining and complaining. In contrast, we see ourselves as more complex; it’s tough to just “get over it.” We see the need for developing an elaboration with respect to ourselves, something to support the bas relief of our lives.
So, we waiver between reductionism and complication. For others, the simple will do; they live “Doric” lives. For us, only the complex will do; our lives are “Corinthian.” What might happen if we could, in times of perceived dire need, just pretend to be sitting on an IKEA chair while saying to ourselves, “You know, I think I’ll just get over it.”