“That’s one reason we don’t completely know ourselves; that’s a reason for saying, ‘I want to find myself.’ It really doesn’t matter how much searching we do, however, we can’t contemplate fully all our own connections—both inside our heads and outside our bodies. In a way, that’s something that’s a bit uplifting. I can say I’m not a simple being. Goodness! If we can’t even understand all the connections of a flatworm like C. elegans, whose neuron count pales by comparison with ours, how are we going to fully understand ourselves? I’m my own undiscovered land; I’m a geography so wide and fast, so diverse, I can’t even travel much of it within myself during my lifetime. We all end up as strangers to ourselves.”
“And you don’t find that discouraging?” you ask.
“No. It’s also a reason for being excited about life. I have all those connections I made outside my head on top of all those connections I made inside my head. Exploration is our destiny; we live without knowing, so we have the best of reasons to be inquisitive, to be curious. And we’ll never run out of connections to explore and understand because in exploring, we make new connections inside and out.
“If you ever think, ‘I’m bored,’ you don’t recognize one key essence of your existence. If you ever think, ‘I’m bored,’ you can break the feeling of boredom simply by asking yourself about the day’s connections, or yesterday’s, or tomorrow’s potential connections. And in asking yourself, remember to note that even in exploring those connections, you’ll miss parallel and corollary connections you made, are making, and will make.
“Think of today as Connection Appreciation Day.”